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    9 hours ago

    I read this article and immediately went to thank my husband for not drugging, raping and filming me. He was like uh, you’re welcome? Figured not drugging your loved ones was one of those unwritten rules, but I guess not.

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    9 hours ago

    That was one of the sickest most horrible things i have ever read. How can anyone want to do that to their wife. It doesn’t even seem to really be about the sex. I am just lost for words, truly abhorrent.

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        It’s about dominance, it’s not that the sex doesn’t bring pleasure it’s that sex without dominance (i.e. sex that isn’t rape) does not bring pleasure (at least that’s always been my interpretation, I’m not a rapist so I could just be wrong).

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    12 hours ago

    Is there a vigilante academy that teaches people how to investigate and expose rapists so their lives are the ones getting destroyed? Because I can get behind that.

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      Oh man I’d love that. My ex drugged and raped me but all evidence is circumstantial so I can’t ruin his life legally.

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        Same thing happens to people all the time. They’ll send a report and take in evidence that they don’t let go of. The problem is that the frequency has totally desensitized and saturated the justice system.

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          Step three (the first step involving gaining skills) is pretty brutal. Then step 4 is just an extension of step 1 but requires even more luck when already only 0.1% manage step 1. Step 5 and beyond aren’t very fun either.

          In fact I think the only real fun part, other than the general satisfaction from a job well done, involves a cat suit, and even that is a pretty mixed bag. Stock up on disinfectant and bandaids.

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      Some people are born psychopaths. They look like normal people but they’re not. They don’t feel remorse or guilt for anything they do. They see other people as resources to exploit. They cannot be taught not to think this way because their brains lack the capacity to feel the wrongness of their actions.

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      At lot more than some. 62 million people (edit: visited a porn website, and the video in question has 20.000 views) and I assume it would be safe to say, mainly men

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    If you think you have been drugged or spiked, seek help immediately, tell a trusted person and go to the hospital or call emergency services.

    Oh, which trusted person? Not that one. A rando on the street is more trustworthy than the person who said they’d care for you until your dying day.

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      A close (female) friend probably. Or a stranger on the street, as you said. Whoever you trust.