Clowns to the left of me. Jokers to the right.

Here I am, stuck in the middle with you.

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Cake day: January 7th, 2025

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  • The difference in gender care still upset me a ton. Multiple ex girlfriends have told me that their doctors and even the nurses don’t take their comments or requests seriously unless a guy (me in that case) is around to repeat it. Which is obviously totally fucking bullshit.

    My mom was denied painkillers until her boyfriend demanded them for her.

    I have legitimately heard doctors say “you know how women are, always so dramatic”. Like bitch I am 5’11" and 280 pounds, but I will cry like a baby if I have to get shots. I hate needles. Men can be dramatic too haha.


  • Boy now I feel all turned around.

    I’ll just clarify my stance I guess. I think it’s important to consider how someone’s race or genetics can alter their medical needs or risks, but I don’t think those genetics should be used to deny medical care. I do think it should be taken into consideration by their doctor though. Just like families have predisposed medical conditions some people are going to have a higher likelihood of certain things due to their race or ethnicity and it’s important that doctors take those things into consideration. Kinda like how we shouldn’t be using the same exact medical standards for both men and women. They have differences and they need to be considered at all points during care.



  • … I never said that? I said blue eyes are more light sensitive than darker eyes. This is verifiably true.

    Everyone should have polarized sun glasses, but the level of discomfort someone with blue eyes and someone with brown eyes will have while dealing with the same sunny conditions will be quite different. I have very light blue eyes. Some have called them “icey”. I cannot deal with pretty much any sunlight and I can also have reflections trigger horrible migraines. It’s well documented that lighter colored eyes tend to struggle more often with brightness levels. Kinda like how putting some dark paint on your upper cheeks helps significantly while working outside as it cuts down on the light being bounced into your own eyes by your cheeks.



  • Yeah at some point you just say fuck it and limp along until the problem is big enough that it’s time for a completely new house or you move.

    In our situation it’s one of those things where it just doesn’t seem worth it to properly address because if we are gonna have an electrician cut a bunch of holes in our walls to redo all the wiring we may as well have a plumber cut a bunch of holes in our ceiling to insulate all the pipes they installed in the ceiling crawl space without any insulation. And if we have them cutting holes in every wall and every ceiling we may as we lost have them tear the whole goddamn house down and start over properly lol.