Iv basically never met a single parent that non stopped bitched about their kids that was also a good parent.

While iv also basically never met a single parent that wouldn’t shut up about how much they love their kid that wasn’t a good parent.

While a parent can do a little of both, it’s pretty damn obvious which way a person leans after even a short amount of time. People self report real God damn fast on this topic.

And frankly there’s way more of A then B.